The End of Social Media? (For Me, I Mean!)

Man, I miss the old days of Twitter. Before it became a hell hole, and even before it became a giant advertising venue. When it was just a bunch of nerds talking about random stuff all day, every day. It was like a community snowball. You’d have a few people you followed and then you’d follow some of the people they followed and pretty soon you had this nice community of folks to talk with.

Then Ashton Kutcher discovered Twitter and that was the start of the end. Soon the rest of hollywood was there, then the politicians, then every brand had a twitter handle and the noise level grew and grew. And then, y’know, Musk.

I’ve tried other services and the only one that really stuck was Google Plus, but then Google shut that down. The rest all seemed transitory or made finding a community so hard it wasn’t worth the effort.

Eventually I settled on Mastodon, and that was good for a while until my interests diverged from that of ‘the gang’ I was following. It was the sin of finding AI fun and interesting that did it. No longer did I feel comfortable talking about things I was interested in. I’m adding AI to religion and politics as the topics you should never discuss in public!

So I moved to Bluesky and using that has been pretty much like shouting into the void. Very few people respond in any way. There are maybe 3 or 4 people I interact with their every so often. Maybe its me? Maybe I’m not putting sufficient effort into making connections?

Oddly the one place I now use more than anything else is Facebook. I wound up there through a round-about path. One of the generative AI services I use gives your free credits if you post your creation on Instagram, so I started doing that even though I don’t actually use Instagram. But I didn’t realize posting to Instagram also posts to Facebook. I’d forgotten I even HAD the Facebook account (created when I got Quest VR and it required a Facebook account). But folks I’ve known for decades started reacting to my posts so I went over there to respond and find I actually have more interactions there than anywhere else (tho still not much).

Still, it’s nothing like the old Twitter. I remember joining others in live tweeting events like gaming dog and pony shows or infamously bad movies like Sharknado. It was like watching something in an auditorium with a bunch of friends shouting comments to each other while somehow not distracting from the main stage.

Anyway, I guess we’ve moved on from those times. And maybe it’s OK. I probably spend my time more productively now than when I was heavily into social media. I watch a lot of informational YouTube, or do online classes and things like that. Or I code on hobbiest projects. None of these are earth shattering changes but I guess they feel slightly more productive (though not as fun) as talking with friends.

Anyway, on the off chance anyone has noticed that I don’t post often on ‘the socials’ these days, now you know why. But I am good, things are good. We’re excited about the upcoming move. We still miss our Lola but other than that, knock on wood, we are doing pretty well all in all. And PartPurple is still on Mastodon so if anything dramatic happens to us she’ll probably share it.

In the meantime I’ve moved my AI and tech discussions over to my other blog, Smith Talks Tech. Since I know AI upsets a lot of people I figured it made sense to separate it from my gaming talk here at Dragonchasers.

I’ll resist the urge to add an AI generated image to the top of this post out of respect for anyone on Mastodon who happens to follow the link here, since I do think I’ll share this post over there as a kind of official “So long, thanks for all the good times, see you again when the wheel turns.”

5 thoughts on “The End of Social Media? (For Me, I Mean!)

  1. Sad to hear that you’re no longer feeling the love on Mastodon! I’ve mostly wandered off from blogstuff at this point, but I’ll keep checking in on your posts here, seems like the best way to keep in some sort of contact.

    Glad to hear things are going well, and that you’ve found a new hobby you’re excited about!

  2. I had noticed that you weren’t posting much, but I hoped that it was a phase and you’d be back eventually. This whole thing makes me sad. I remember those days of Twitter and, more importantly, how we met there. I had been playing APB and posting comments about it. Dusty followed me, and then I guess you followed him, and I commented on a game mechanic. The rest is history. You were the first person I met in person at PAX East that year, at the bar randomly, before the actual meetup was supposed to happen. Then, discovering we both remember and sharing our love of the TV lineup of WPIX 11 in the 80s, The Odd Couple, The Honeymooners, Star Trek, and The Twilight Zone.

    Who else am I going to get to be my grumpy but with a heart of gold older brother vibe? 🙁 But that’s a selfish question. I hope that no matter what, you are happy. That you and Angela love the new place (moving, I had no idea you were moving). And every time I hug Appa, I will think of Lola and how your walks with her inspired me to take the plunge and become a dog mom.

    You will be missed.

  3. I burned out on social media very early, when I realised I was coming home from work every day and spending pretty much the whole evening on Yahoo Groups. After I quit that I never felt like starting up again with the later, more sophisticated versions. Comment threads on blogs move at about the pace and in about the volume I’m happy with these days.

  4. I used AI images a couple of times on BlueSky and was put on a blocklist for AI slop promoters, and so I stopped posting AI images on BlueSky.

    Most all my programming integrates AI in some way, though I had to remove the dynamic aspect of it from Sword for Hire to control costs, but all the text in there was generated from AI based on the original adventure.

    I find AI is useful as a tool. Actually I think I’ll write a post about it just to piss people off.

    I know where to find you 🙂

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